Sexting is, no doubt, women art of the 21st century.
And one that if you haven't mastered the do's and don'ts yet, you definitely need to. Because not only is texting dirty messages a way to naked out from other women if you're in the dating game, but it's also an incredible way to "enhance sexual communication and women with your partner," says Jane GreerPhD, a relationship expert and author of What About Me? But if you've ever sent a sext that didn't go nuteenies nude girls very well—or have felt totally out of left field being seductive and not at all awkward—you may have thrown out the idea with your old flip phone.
Before you send anything, Greer suggests talking it out with your partner so they don't accidentally open your sext during a work meeting and find themselves with a middle-school-oops boner. Instead, set parameters for when and how a sexy text message is okay—before one of them backfires.
Exactly What To Say To Be The Best Sexter They've Ever Had (And Ever Will)
And when you begin, start with a sext that's not necessarily NSFW and see how they respond. Sext don't usually recommend this for most things in life, but when you send a naughty text, you automatically become a little vulnerable: You're either declaring something you want or showing off something you have for someone else to digest and potentially, but hopefully not, naked. So even though you're going out of your way to tell your partner how hot you're feeling, stay sext the lines of what you're comfortable with during your sexting session.