She is going to dump you. That and this recent article https: They are trying to explain how it's ok that the founder used a magic rock to hunt for buried treasure to earn money, and then used that same "seer stone" to translate the Book of Mormon. This was hugely disappointing for him and created some very tense times.
Mormon's view marriages outside the temple to be counterfeit and you can't get into the temple without converting to the religion. This is the rule rather than the exception. But what does it really mean to be a patriarch, to lead your tribe.
BYU was once the perfect place to find a great young woman and get married. She converts to your religion. But, you will probably lose. She has opened my eyes to many parts of our national culture that are not in harmony with righteousness. You just have to decide if the payoff is worth it. If you want to date a Mormon guy or girl, then the best way to meet singles is by visiting the Church. First and most importantly, I see major trust issues in your future if you both think the other is brainwashed. I hate to be so undiplomatic, but it will always create friction in your life to have this level of religious difference. Said he wanted those extra few minutes in the morning, but prefaced it by saying he knew it was selfish of him. But the reason I don't know him well enough is because we don't spend enough time together, or I feel like he's not really "letting me in" to get close to him.
But please also know that the people who love you are hoping you make the right decision because they want you to be happy. I'd try to see if she will leave the religion, and if not, you should break it off. Reading your messages I don't feel bad about being in the shadow of his career. I thought she would grow out of it.