But DON'T become in need of care as a spouse. Mind control is not child's play, and the Mormon church has real people's blood on their hands for the despicable damage they've caused. I have read half of all the comments and decided to skip the rest. If you really like this girl, might want to show her this.




Hopefully she could realize if she was born into one of these cults that also distrust apostates she probably wouldn't see through them either. I feel like this pressure of finding a residency has already taken a toll in our relationship and somewhat "controlled" us for so long that I am already so tired of it. It's a great idea to know where you stand so that you'll be prepared when this comes up in conversation. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. There will be pressure to go to church, marry in the temple, Yada Yada You will want to make sure you're ready to battle this for years, maybe a lifetime. Marriage offers a chance to develop generosity of spirit and a willingness to be improved by the one we love, no matter what faith tradition he or she may claim. He gave me a very clear answer that this was right.
I was recently married to my husband in the Twin Falls, Idaho temple for time and all eternity. I understand that, and accept that. Although there are no strict rules as to who should do the asking, the Mormons are very conservative and in general, they expect guys to do the asking. Use of this site constitutes acceptance of our User Agreement and Privacy Policy. But it would not change my love for that person. You might want to determine your level of willingness to put up with his demanding work schedule and to communicate with him about your needs and concerns. The man I started dating 8 years ago, long before med school was in the picture, is disappearing before my very eyes.
Be open-minded; accept that different people have different beliefs, and that they do not always have to match with yours. She suggested instead watching something that was produced by the church itself. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen.