MANY years before I got together with my boyfriend, I had a sex thing with this guy that I thought was relationship-material. He not only had an amazing body but a great personality as well. I was honest when I met him that I was looking for something more than just sex, and he led me to believe that was what he wanted, too. Between having mind-blowing sex, we ordered home delivery, played video games, and watched movies - couple-y type things but without the label. But when I tried to get him to go to a show or out to dinner with me, he refused.

Touch – and I cannot stress this enough – the FUPA.
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TOUCH THE FUPA
I was 16, a size 14 and it was — long before body positivity hit the mainstream or my Tumblr feed. Now, as a year-old woman wearing a size 20, the shagging game has changed year on year as my body has gotten bigger and the dating pool has gotten smaller. The latter is the most insulting.
We have all heard theories about different ways to spice up your sex life, food that gets you in the mood, and even pills that will enhance performance. Yet, there is one theory that has been consistently unanimous when it comes to sex; that size matters a lot. Particularly when it comes to weight! Can a partner's weight enhance or diminish the pleasure between the sheets? Some people have radical theories about weight and sex. Some claim they prefer cuddly partners while some swear by the "slender never gets tired" phrase. Swart starts off by saying that the shape of your partner is all a matter of preference. Malepe, on the other hand, says one's weight would only be a factor in the bedroom if certain positions are difficult to do.