If I even mention wanting to talk just about normal life things, I am told not to tilt the balance between problems and fun. LDSdotOrg is mostly propaganda. Your relationship with your family will be healed, and so will you. I wanted to be able to fully share my faith with my spouse, but this expectation was now up in the air. Joanna has written a good answer here. Going along with her cult might feel fine when it is just you in her, but if you have kids, it will be very different. I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes.
You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. But there also are alot of committed hardworking men who take on a hard job and do their best to juggle work and family. To be honest; we're not couples matching pretty disparate specialties not conducive to couples matching but we're matching by geography, so I guess we'll have to wait and see if we're still together after the match: Well I guess you can always ask him for a little clarification etc. Mormons can be pretty crazy without it. When he comes home he's so exhausted and just wants to veg out and this leaves me alone again. Expect that you will do the majority of parenting and attend school functions alone. Doctors are gift of God but when u marry, family too is important. Of course she won't want to watch something that in her mind attacks her religion. Don't think your life is going to be all rainbows and great lifestyles. Can I leave him now.
These are things your wife may consider matter-of-fact and you may be surprised by if you don't discuss them now. God Bless you and all the other doctors' wives that have transparently shared their experiences on your page. I guess if u believe an angel with a sword really did force Joseph Smith to marry those girls. With minimal support on my side and going against everything I had grown up learning, I had to trust my relationship with God. Fall in love, learn, make some mistakes, laugh, serve other people, reproduce, and let the whole story start again. That is the million dollar question. Yes, talk talk talk about everything yoiu can think of, but beyond that I would suggest pre-marital counseling from people knowledgeable in each tradition at play this will probably take two different counselors, who might be faith-based. It would be ludicrous to think otherwise. If you have children how will they be raised.
The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. This was hard for me because my faith is deeply rooted within me. It's why TBMs are so bugged by people that leave the church.