The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. Some other times I admire myself and ask God for help. Is there even any sex at all in this fantasy. Although most of our communication is through text.
I guess if u believe an angel with a sword really did force Joseph Smith to marry those girls. Anyway, I'm sad and disappointed and I know that it will be my job to keep the marriage together. If you marry her, you're marrying into a cult, a mild cult as far as cults go, but a cult nonetheless. Its the days when I don't get a text that I worry I feel terrible now for ever doubting him. Do not expect anything long term. As my husband learns about Mormonism I get to see it through his fresh eyes. Its fascinating that in so many women are defining themselves by their MD husbands like we are in s season from Mad Men. Harmony will prevail if the husband appreciates the value of church service and attendance. If I just kind of take things as they come, everyone is happier.
Don't fall in love with a married man. Whatever your leaders have said, consider their counsel, give it the weight it deserves, then counsel with your Heavenly Father about your own situation. But that was also a possibility if he had married a non-mormon. But the loneliness and the hours ER shifts are taken everything I had left in me. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. Richard often laments that if he had taken a tech job, he would have been able to actually make a damn good salary for the last 8 years instead of going into debt with med school and making zero money.
Mormons have separate congregations for young single adults, which is very convenient. If you both comfortable having different faiths, your relationship can still be rewarding and fulfilling. I've been searching around for advice, and this blog page is probably the most informative on the topic of dating a doctor as I've been able to find anywhere. Eternity is a long time. I'm busier than many people my age, but not as much as he is. If she is as real deal as you say she is, she believes this also. I would bet this is exactly what she is thinking about you, which is why she is willing to have a relationship with you aren't a Mormon. Just know what your getting into.