I tried to make the marriage work but we were at two different emotional places in our lifes. Sometimes I wonder if it's "Better to end it now and cut off the limb and let the stump heal". I hope it all works out for you. I get that a lot to people saying 'be happy you married a doctor' 'u will have a glamorous wonderful life' they would not get it unless they be one-that is being a docs wife, the loneliness is the worst especially when your newly wedded and 2nd month of ur marriage he has to go for his night calls in dec, which includes our first christmas: I thought I was the only one who barely gets communication throughout the day, not married but am dating a surgeon and have for 6 years. Yes; I suppose if each of us believe the other is brainwashed, there's going to be major problems later on.
Of course my parents love each other very much and would not choose another spouse, which is why her response caught me off guard. And it was the most miserable and lousy choice I ever made. Two people can be as completely different as it is possible to be and respect each others' beliefs. Two deployments, two years away and I've reached the point where it is honestly easier when he is away. It had nothing to do with our relationship and so much to do with the pressures and demands of his work. If all the Mormons truly were the pricks we often claim them to be, then Mormonism would be the perfect punishment for them. It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. I'd like to reiterate, though, that sheer physical exhaustion isn't as much of a problem for me as it might be for a med student or a doctor, so he might be deserving of the benefit of doubt if he doesn't keep in touch regularly.
Personally, I like to have my own identity and not be defined by my attachment to Dr. But it does make it hard for me to develop and strengthen our relationship. You can watch them all in about a half an hour and you'll know almost everything you need to know. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size.
Know that you are playing a game aka dating mormon girls that has low odds of success. Honestly, I have given up on lds men as a single 25 year old. It has always been like this. Get helpful advice on your cases from a community of physicians. Eventually it turned into a sour argument.